Although it sounded like Ben Affleck was still blaming Jennifer Lopez recently for damaging his acting career in his interview with Details magazine, he has reportedly sent her a congratulations note for her pregnancy. According to sources:

"Ben sent a personal message to Jennifer and hubby Marc Anthony extending his best wishes."


One source added:

Ben "raved how fatherhood has left him thrilled - and he said he knows what a great mother J.Lo will be. While the two have had little communication since their highly publicized breakup, Jennifer was deeply touched by Ben’s heartfelt message."


I bet when Ben wakes up and sees Jennifer Garner and his cutiepie daughter Violet each day, he thanks God for sparing him the trauma of what might've been had he married JLo.